Mistakes within relationships

Are you ready to give up? If you are at that point in your relationship where you think there is no going back, like things can’t be fixed, think again. Yes, this isn’t for everyone, but not every relationship is just a waste of time. Especially if you love the person. Really and truly love them. You shouldn’t just give up. You might feel like you have already put everything you have into it, but the only thing you really need to put in it is love, faith, hope, and trust. Love itself is complicated. It It has its up and its downs. Sometimes people even mistake lust as love. Lust is just being in love with the idea of being in love. When you’re in love, you’ll know it. When things go bad, you’ll feel like your chest has collapsed. In lust, your hurt, but you know you’ll make it through. When you’re in love, if you lose the person you love in any way, it feels like the end of the world. Mainly because the person was your world. If you truly love them, the main thing you need to do is never give up. Never lose hope. I’m not saying it’s easy. It’s one of the hardest things to do. Sitting there, wondering whats going to happen. Wondering if there will ever be an “us” again. Wondering if they have already found someone new. Someone that could make them smile bigger and brighter than you could. It’s easy to make mistakes in a relationship. Whether it being doing something because you think it would be for the best, saying the wrong thing, treating someone the wrong way, anything. The best you can do is just take an hour or so to yourselves, really think about it, then talk it all over. Dont make a quick decision that could ruin everything. Then you have to deal with holding that over your own head, and having other people hold it over your head. You’ll beat yourself up over it day in and day out. Just keep hope. Expect there to be a positive outcome. You you sit there and think negatively, then it is going to turn out negative. Yes, if things don’t go the way you would hope for them to, it’s going to hurt. Probably very badly. At least then you can say you tried. You didn’t give up. And even if things don’t turn out how you hope, that still doesn’t mean that you have to give up. Another thing you need to keep in mind is if you hope to get back with someone, don’t do something stupid while you guys are apart. That will just push them away even more. Even though you guys aren’t together, that could even ruin trust. It could ruin even the slightest chances you many have. Even if they tell you to go to someone else, just give it time. It could have just been pain talking. Whether you broke up with them, or they broke up with you. It goes both ways. Just dont let them walk away without letting them know your true feelings. Even if you are hurt, just do it. If you’re lucky, it could just be that extra little push they need. Give them that little boost of hope that they may need. If you truly love someone, never give up on them. Never give up on your relationship. You may just realize a few things. If you truly love someone, then let them know, and never miss a chance to let them know. Use the times you usually argue, the times you would usually push each other away, the times you would usually push each others buttons, and just take that time to talk. Really talk. Or use it to go for a short road trip, blare music you guys share, and just scream the lyrics. Jam out together, be silly. Just be happy.. together. And be happy to be together.
Written by: Shyann Franks

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